The life of a Russian married to an American. Marry an American! Advice for future wives
The story of Xenia from Siberia is worthy of a multi-season series. A failed marriage at home and a new love story in the USA - from her own experience, the girl shows her compatriots that if you are not afraid of difficulties and boldly go towards your goal, then in everyone's life there will definitely be a meeting with a prince and a happy end. The SHE correspondent talked to the blogger.
Xenia's past
In Novosibirsk, the girl was a real estate agent and never dreamed of moving to the States. But it so happened that, having studied as a process engineer, Ksenia did not even have time to work in her specialty, since she moved to the USA at the age of 22. The American life of a Siberian began with a simple visit to a friend.
Immigration
The most difficult thing that turned out to be for Ksenia in the process of emigration was to overcome her fear.
« We do not take any steps simply because we are afraid, we do not have enough information. Sometimes hands dropped, but it was impossible to relax, because in America you have to pay for everything. For an apartment, for gas, for electricity, taxes. I had to act all the time.».
Russian and American men
The girl notices that Russian and American men have significant differences in mentality. Americans know how to treat a woman like the fair sex, love unselfishly, without expecting in return that his lady of the heart will gladly take up washing socks and ironing shirts. But Russian men expect this from a woman. In the minds of Russians, there is a stereotype that a woman should take care of her work, life, children, and sometimes her husband. Americans prefer having hired workers do their homework. If opportunities do not allow using the services of a housekeeper, then an American man, even in this case, will not shoulder all the housework on fragile female shoulders.
Career in New York
Ksenia decided to study psychology in New York. Many dissuaded her, arguing that it is very difficult, you need to be fluent in English. But the stubborn Siberian woman made her conscious choice and did not regret it. After all, this was the first step on the way to your own business. At first there was work in the clinic, after - practice in the hospital, I even had to work with alcohol-dependent patients. In parallel with this, Ksenia kept her blog, consulted, and over time noticed that her beginning private practice was bearing fruit. For a personal consultation, the girl takes $90.
« Half of my clients are girls from Russia, mostly Moscow, the other half are people living in New York and America. The main request is relationships, the second most popular is the purpose and realization of oneself in a career».
A family
Ksenia says that she always dreamed of exactly the kind of family she found in the States. Here the girl does not have the feeling that she owes something to someone, her husband never burdens her homework. Ksenia is also very impressed by the high organization of her American husband. The couple always plans their vacation in advance, the husband, just in case, took out insurance so that Ksenia and the child do not need anything in case of anything. And unlike many Russian girls, our heroine has nothing against marriage contracts.
Changes in Novosibirsk
Ksenia has not been in her hometown for five whole years, but for such an impressive period of time the girl has not noticed almost any significant changes.
« I love Novosibirsk, and for me it will remain my hometown, but in contrast to America, dullness and some kind of internal discontent catches my eye - this has always been the case, just now I began to notice it. There are not enough smiles, as there are enough in the USA».
Loneliness and depression
New York is a city of careerists. But behind the constant earning of money, people do not notice how they are becoming more and more alone. Americans are famous for their smilingness, but few people know that despondency and depression are hidden behind dazzling smiles. Ksenia, as a psychologist, knows this firsthand, because sometimes people just need to speak out and be heard. In Russia, the help of a psychologist is not as widely used as in America. Russian women usually go to a friend with a bottle of wine, and some generally like to turn to alternative medicine and pseudo-psychics for help.
Ksenia advises women who dream of a successful cloudless life:
« We need to evolve and not stand still. The most big mistake women, that they are waiting for that same male wizard to come and make their life a fairy tale. You need to constantly invest in yourself and your development - and then the right man will appear on his own».
Russian and American fashion
The contrast between Russian women and American women is immediately striking. In America, simple and comfortable clothes are preferred, while in Russia women are able to put on make-up for several hours just to take out the garbage. Even immigrant women in America are immediately visible in the crowd by their well-groomed and elegant appearance. According to Ksenia, if you want to find an American man, then it’s better to do it in the outback, in New York there are many Russian immigrants pleasing the eyes of Americans, but in small town you can play in contrast with the locals.
A large number of girls and women ask for advice on how to marry a foreigner. The very first thing Ksenia advises them to do is treat the search for a future spouse as their job.
You can register on a dating site, as the sister of the heroine did. But you need to be very careful not to run into Internet perverts. Carefully fill out the questionnaire, do not flaunt all your charms and talents - Americans like everything to be a little simpler. Be kind, sincere and open.
Do not be afraid to take the initiative, because there is nothing to be ashamed of being the first to start a dialogue.
« Before you go on a date, it is better to call on Skype, see if his manner of behavior / conversation repels you, and only after that you can make an appointment. My sister, for example, went on dates for 4 months, during which time she had 3 official marriage proposals - good wealthy men. Then she could not choose from two men - a psychologist and a policeman, in the end she chose a man who communicates better with her child, this was a policeman. Now they are preparing for the wedding».
This story does not have a happy ending, although there were many good reasons for that. I would like those who are in such a hurry to Russia in the hope of returning with a valuable trophy - the “ideal Russian wife”, could draw some conclusions for themselves from this sad experience. Disappointed in their emancipated Western girlfriends and tired of the materialism of their own women, these men dream of a simple life with someone who is still able to appreciate the beauty of traditional values: a good husband, a comfortable home, well-behaved children...
“Dear Natasha, I have been thinking for several days about your request to publish my story on the pages of your site. I came to the conclusion that maybe the only point of my family battle is to help others avoid a similar fate... My wife from the "Russian Intelligentsia" (in Soviet Russia, if you remember, there were three social classes: the working class, the peasantry and the intelligentsia - the most refined, highly cultured and educated class.) I have always been common man with ordinary, uncomplicated needs... My wife's needs have always been and are much higher than my own: she needs more intellectually, spiritually, financially and sexually. Today she asked me "Is not a homosexual..." Our struggle continues day by day. Probably, both of us are well aware that we made a mistake by entering into marriage ... "
Tom (name has been changed) worked in Moscow for four years. He came to Soviet Union in the ninety-second year, at the very beginning of Perestroika. His future wife worked with him in the same office.
They were both in a much better position than most "tourists" who have no more than two weeks at their disposal to meet their Russian "brides". However, instead of using the opportunity of full communication and finding out their psychological and physiological compatibility, they hurried to tie the knot...
« Our family life was much better while we lived in Moscow. We didn't have time to "dig" into each other. We were connected by a common cause ... "
Those who have been to Moscow know that no one is bored in this big and lively city! The active lifestyle of the Russian capital easily compensates for the lack of common interests and softens the difference in character. Being at home in Russia, Russian women tend to find all foreigners attractive. Most of them easily fall under the charm and external gloss of foreign businessmen. An affair with an American or European causes the dependence of girlfriends and raises the heroine to a kind of pedestal in the eyes of others. A foreign passport will almost always provide its owner with success and an easy victory in any of the Russian cities. As soon as the "Russian romance" ended in marriage and the Russian woman was successfully exported abroad, her husband's "foreign charm" instantly loses its strength. Now the foreign spouse has to prove his attractiveness and significance in the eyes of the Russian wife already in his own country. The task is not to fall in the eyes of your Russian girlfriend - sometimes not an easy one!
Usually Russian women (like all other women, regardless of their nationality) are attracted to healthy, wealthy and attractive men. If your foreign passport was the only or main reason why she decided on this marriage, your family life will face many serious tests.
“Arriving in America, we both experienced a huge shock. In my homeland, I was not as successful in business as I was in Russia. Left without a job, my wife began to take her frustrations out on me. In response, I did the same. There was no love left between us, and as I understood only now, after a long time, there was not much of it at the time of our meeting ... "
Although by tradition a Russian woman has a broad soul and extraordinary tolerance towards her husband, life abroad often changes her character. It is known that the majority of women living in Russia prefer to remain married to their spouses even if they do not support their families and abuse alcohol excessively. At the same time, many of those married to foreigners experience great disappointment when their "foreign" husbands do not meet their high expectations.
“I feel sorry for my Russian wife... I had nothing to offer her. And how can I be a man when she constantly criticizes me and threatens me with divorce... After daily analyzing my "lost soul", there is nothing good left in me... Her accusations hurt me. I am a simple person. I am ashamed that I could not make this woman happy. I'm probably going a little crazy. The only thing I dream about is peace and a little happiness. Thanks for listening to me. I hope my experience will help someone not to go through such a nightmare ... "
We all dream of meeting our destiny in our youth: first at the school desk, then at the university, and, soon, at the workplace. But it doesn't always work out the way we want, and the sweet prince never comes and doesn't come. It is in such cases that nature and advanced technologies help us to look for our soul mate not within the framework of our native city, but within all continents.
With the development of the Internet and, in particular, marriage agencies and dating sites, the chance to meet a worthy life partner in another country has increased significantly. In this article, we will talk about Americans, finding out what qualities a bride needs to have in order to marry such a man.
American men, what are they?
Many girls who left their homes in search of happiness abroad claim that Americans are very similar to Slavs, have a good disposition, hospitality and an exceptional sense of humor. Knowledge of international girls of English language allowed to fully communicate with such men and identify the main features of their character and behavior:
idle life. Regardless of whether your chosen one works as a famous surgeon day and night, or bakes pizza at a local fast food place, all Americans are in awe of weekends and red days of the calendar. Independence Day and Thanksgiving Day are obligatory holidays on which men of this nationality like to gather in a close family circle, setting off small fireworks, watching parades, attending fairs and going out of town for picnics.
Smiling men. Truly, Americans are considered very hospitable and perky guys who will always cheer you up with a good story or a fun pastime. A date with an American often turns into fun trips to attractions, riding motor boats or eating burgers in a race. Due to the fact that American men are always in high spirits, they will not tolerate if you daily “load” them with your problems, worries and domestic troubles. There were times when American men simply took their Slavic wives to a psychiatrist, not understanding their endlessly anxious and fussy mood.
The spirit of competition. All American men love to compete, overcome obstacles and themselves, record and increase achievements. This is a very useful feature, because often their success is measured in such a pleasant equivalent as money. The beauty is that Americans part with the money they receive calmly, without counting every penny spent by their wife, which cannot be said about some other nations.
Organization. Despite the films that the West is actively showing us, Americans are not at all used to wandering around the city doing nothing and hanging on the neck of an elderly mother. These people are quite organized, they are sensitive to their work, they save their time, trying to spend their free minutes with their families as much as possible, and during busy hours they plunge headlong into the work process. We can say that Americans live according to a schedule and like to strictly adhere to it.
Healthy lifestyle. The increase in the number of cases of obesity in the American nation has reached critical point, which caused most Americans to reconsider their views on food and pastime. Many Americans don't smoke and certainly won't tolerate it from their Slavic wife. Love for McDonald's is no longer required, because you can easily interest a man in food in a slow cooker, fish in the oven and steamed vegetables. Try to eliminate cholesterol from your diet, but do not forget to spoil your loved one with homemade sandwiches or pizza from time to time.
Fear of emancipated women. This is exactly the reason why American men are increasingly visiting dating sites in search of a nice and homely Russian or Ukrainian woman. All men in America value the family above all else and are ready to assume maximum responsibility for organizing life and comfort in the "nest". Therefore, an American will want to see a loving wife nearby, a good housewife and a caring mother of his children, while negatively reacting to the desire to go to work on a par with him, starting a family.
The ability to care. Yes, the Americans, unlike the French, will not arrange a candy-bouquet period for you, a fairy tale of love that will end after signing the marriage certificate. These men are ready to pamper their wives all their lives: they bring breakfast to bed, cook their signature dish, or regularly take them out to various parties or just to a restaurant. At the same time, for Americans, unlike Russian men, visiting a fashionable place together does not mean a promise of a “hot” continuation in his room.
So we looked at some points that, dear friend, will help you quickly adapt to marriage with an American. Remember that all cases are individual, people are different, and the reasons to marry a foreigner, sometimes, do not carry a romantic connotation at all. If you really want to see an American husband next to you, you want CHARM HIM AND PUSH HIM TO MARRIAGE, then we can congratulate you, as these good-natured, open and interesting people make a great partnership for the rest of your life.
Before marrying a foreigner, find out a few important points from him - this will greatly facilitate your future life together. Photo kievpravda.com
When you leave the country, leave forever. You can’t sit on two chairs with one booty - it’s not only uncomfortable, but you can also fall to the floor. When you leave, you are not only transporting your physical body, but also rebuilding your brain. You must immediately prepare for the fact that your home will be in another country, and the country will eventually become your own and only. This is the most correct approach to immigration. We must immediately stop comparing, stop converting dollars into rubles, inches into centimeters, and degrees from Fahrenheit to Celsius. We must try to enjoy the fact that life has given you an attempt to start absolutely everything from scratch.
When I arrived in the states, I began to comprehend this country bit by bit, step by step. Every day brought me new discoveries, because I was inquisitive and meticulous. I spoke a little English. I knew nothing about life and culture in the practical sense of these words. I married an American (you can read more about how to immigrate to the US through marriage). By the way, my husband has never filled out any immigration form before. Therefore, together we began to collect documents and fill out questionnaires. We didn't hire any lawyers.
After a year of my stay in the country, I could do everything myself without outside help. Quite quickly, I acquired acquaintances and friends and began to help those who, for 10-15 years in the country, had not learned to speak English. And, naturally, numerous stories from the life of Russian brides began to enter my journalistic “piggy bank”. 90% of them were dramatic. This gave me the idea to write some kind of manual on how to avoid mistakes when moving to America for marriage.
Out of a desire to help my compatriots grew this little book Marrying an American.
I would like to warn women against rash marriages to Americans and unrealistic expectations. Some reproach me: “Why are you warning us from there, from America? I would have stayed in our shoes here in Russia: without money, work, surrounded by drunks. Normal men, you know, have gone as a class. And those rare ones who remained were dismantled even before the October Revolution ... ”.
Girls (can I call you all that?), arguments are accepted. And so I will proceed from the fact that you still decided to change your life for the better by marrying an American. But you should approach this venture wisely.
Of all men, it is better to choose a bachelor or a widower. Photo soulpost.ru
types of men
About applicants for a hand and heart They can be of three types: single, widowed and divorced. Any divorce for an American man (like a move for a Russian woman) is equal to a fire. It's good if he manages to keep some money in his accounts ... Most often, it is after such a crushing divorce that Americans resort to the help of marriage agencies, and so on. Do you think they are attracted by the mysterious Russian soul? Beauty, kindness and thriftiness of Russian women? Don't be fooled! It’s just that not a single normal American woman will even come close to a beggar man, which he really is after a divorce.
Your complete ignorance in this matter, your absolute unpretentiousness, undemanding - that's what attracts an American man.
By the way, if your chosen one said that he was in separation from his wife, and explained to you that this is the same as divorce, immediately end all relations with him.
Separation is a separate living, separate housekeeping. Sometimes spouses can live for so many years, sometimes even document it. But divorce is still a long way off. And, of course, he will not be able to formalize a legal marriage with you.
Therefore, as not the worst option, your chosen one must be either a bachelor or a widower.
Your future husband's children can make your life hell. Shot from the film “Child of Darkness”, kinoguru.co
Children from a previous marriage
You came to an agency or used a dating site. Approach the choice of a future husband not just seriously, but super-seriously. Of course, the ideal option is a childless millionaire orphan. But more often than not, this is an elderly and shabby man, whose children, for some reason, after a divorce, live with him. The heart of our compassionate woman will shed tears from such information, and she will immediately want to become a foster mother to his “unfortunate” kids.
This is where you fell into the first trap.
A man in America will never agree to keep children with him, unless he pursues his own selfish goals.
Suppose he did not want to remain naked and barefoot after a divorce from his wife (which happens most often here), but decided to keep his house or apartment and some capital. The child serves him as a bargaining chip. And he agrees with ex-wife that will keep him until adulthood. And she will also pay him alimony. But if they agree amicably, then he will get another benefit - tax write-off, due to the fact that he is a single father.
“Why is this a trap?” You ask. Because the American child, brought up in a democratic state, has an unbridled character with absolute lack of control. Maybe you have heard that in American schools, teachers constantly advise their students on how they should report any "violence" from their parents against them? This is the real truth.
This doesn't just apply to American children. This may also apply to your own offspring, who, after a year of study at school, will easily chat in English, and to your next remark about unwashed dishes they will say: “Don’t yell at me, otherwise I’ll hand over to the police!”.
My friend raised two grandchildren here in America. She put her whole soul and heart into them, as it seemed to her. Once the elder invited his friends to the house. And in order to show off in front of them, or just out of stupidity, he hit his grandmother, who entered the children's room and made some insignificant remark to him. The grandmother reacted in Russian: she grabbed her grandson by the scruff of the neck and asked sternly why he was spreading his arms? While the grandson fought back and made excuses, another boy dialed the cherished number for all Americans 911 and was ready to call the police. The grandson stopped his friend in time, who did not doubt for a minute that the grandmother should be sent to prison.
Do not rely on the fact that you will replace the American offspring of your future husband with their own mother.
They regularly, on Saturdays and Sundays, will see the parent in her territory. Several divorced dads complained to me that when they brought their children to a meeting with their mother and were fifteen minutes late, they often encountered the police, called by an angry mother.
Yes, yes, dear girls, everything is stipulated in the divorce papers, down to hours and minutes; food that parents can feed their child at meetings; and the clothes that children should wear. In order to "replace" the mother of an American child, at the very least, you must speak English as well as their real mother. Be prepared for the fact that she will turn the offspring against you. Why? Yes, because the money that used to be spent only on your husband's children is now divided between them and you. This means that the kids again refused to buy a mobile phone or to buy the fiftieth pair of sneakers ... A tragedy of universal proportions!
Well, girls, what conclusion do we draw from all of the above? Correctly! The future husband must not have children at all, or they must live with their mother, or they must already be adults and independent.
Your photo on dating sites should match your appearance as much as possible. ordinary life. Photo itc.ua
What photos to put
I want to dwell just a little on the photographs that you are ready to post on the Internet on a dating site () or bring to an agency, for a more substantive search for an overseas prince. You, of course, went through them for a long time, looking for the best one. Maybe this one in a bathing suit? Here you are so tanned, slim and sexy. Maybe this one is from a photo studio? You are just a fashion model against the background of blue satin. Or this one - close-up, hair loose, make-up on the highest level ... No, no, and again - no!
The photo should be ordinary, taken in a familiar environment. No beach frills with a charming tan. If this is a full-length photo, then no bare knees. Thus, you will sweep away those who are only interested in sex.
The simpler the photo, the more likely you are to be chosen by a normal, family-oriented man.
And when he sees you live - in full make-up, elegantly dressed - he will not only be pleasantly surprised, but also flattered by the correctness of his choice. Remember that family life consists not only of holidays. Therefore, everyday life, where you appear in front of your spouse without makeup and in a dressing gown, can greatly disappoint him. On the other hand, men are arranged in such a way that it is enough for them to see a naked toe on their foot, so that their imagination will finish the rest.
Without English and a computer - nowhere
Well, now back to the knowledge of the English language. Half of all problems you may have because of his ignorance. So after the decision to marry, immediately start learning the language. Firstly, it will be more difficult to deceive you, and secondly, it will be easier for you to find a job and obtain the necessary documents for life. It is very good if you master the everyday spoken language. But even better if you learn to read, write and type in English. English is independence, which, all other things being equal, is valued by men in women.
Regardless of age, you should be able to use a computer at a normal level.
One of my friends lives in the states for more than ten years. With every little question, she runs to her husband. Write down a message on the phone, find out the schedule of trains or planes, look at the weather forecast for the week on the computer, order tickets to the theater. He, of course, does all this for her. But to say that with great displeasure is to say nothing. I once asked her: “Why don’t you master the computer?”. “I have no time, I have enough to do without a computer,” she said. But, in the next conversation, she noticed: “It seems to me that my husband does not love me ...”. Of course, in love, computer literacy and the correctness of English should not play a decisive role. However, do not forget that life is made up of little things.
Be sure to check what medications your chosen one is taking. Photo prepbase.ru
What else to pay attention to
Start by testing your guess. Do not invite him to Russia. Do not immediately agree to visit America. Arrange for a sweet romantic meeting in no man's land, in Italy or Switzerland, for example. There, without straining it for all kinds of gifts, just watch.
Talk and remember everything that he wants to tell you in the heat of the first date. Better yet, write it down. No one knows what information you will then need.
Pay attention to what medications your fiancé is taking. At Tamara's friend, for example, her future husband took something. No, they weren't drugs. Common psychotropic drugs with side effects. At the time of the seduction of a beautiful Russian woman, the American macho stopped taking them. Tamara got married and at first enjoyed family happiness. And six months later, the husband again got hooked on his favorite “delicacy”. A side effect of these drugs was impotence. This is how they still live: he is in his room, she is in hers. In addition, he was also a jealous dog in the manger. The poor lady has no sex, no cupcake (in the form of at least some lover).
Some men like to choose women much younger than themselves. This is not always normal. Photo blu-ray-rezensionen.net
When choosing a partner, pay attention to age. Often American men are looking for women at least 15 years younger than them. This, of course, is not surprising, but about one hundred percent mental health such desire does not speak.
Lana was seduced by the proposal of a respectable, rich man, to put it mildly, advanced in years. She was flattered by his stability, his desire to please her, to give her gifts. And he was flattered by her youth, beauty, ability to behave in society. She, let's say, got the key to the candy store, and he is beautiful, expensive toy. After a short time, Lana realized that it was not only difficult, but almost impossible, to fulfill a marital duty in relation to an elderly husband. He, too, realized that her "headaches" and "bad mood" had no end. The key to the shop was sharply demanded back, and in return they brought divorce papers. In general, Karabas-Barabas played enough.
In I will talk about how much your future husband should earn, and also why it is important to know in which city in the USA he lives.
The United States is one of the richest and most developed countries in the world, in which many women dream of living. About how American men differ from ours, whether they are family men or not, how they care, how they prefer to get acquainted, we asked Elena Trofimova, manager of the marriage agency Tomorrowlove.
Why do American suitors go to Ukraine
Dating sites are common in the USA, but it is not always possible to meet a woman there to create a family, so men with serious intentions turn to marriage agencies. As a rule, a man through an agency finds a woman (often chooses several at once) in Ukraine and comes here for the first acquaintance. The agency helps him find accommodation and arranges meetings in Kyiv. Usually in a cafe. There are also so-called marriage tours, when a group of suitors visit several Ukrainian cities at once (Odessa, Nikolaev, Zaporozhye, etc.), but such trips are usually not cheap, and therefore they are not common. In Kyiv, group dating evenings are held once a month in a nightclub, where female clients of several marriage agencies are invited at once. If you ever come to such a party with American suitors, you will see typical American men there. For example, a man very similar to the actor Richard Gere, whose ancestors were Irish and English, an Indian with skin color from light to very dark, a dark-skinned guy from Hawaii, an Asian, a man with a beard, in a cap and vest (Texan farmer type). The rent of the hall, drinks and treats at such parties are paid by the grooms, and everything is free for women.
We must take into account the fact that young, successful Americans rarely turn to marriage agencies. It's more of an exception than the rule. They prefer to meet at university, at work or in in social networks. With the help of marriage agencies, older people, divorced people, widowers or those who have never been married, but they are already over forty and they plan to have children, most often try to meet a woman or find a wife. 80-year-olds also apply there, so even your grandmother has a chance. By the way, there have been cases when virgin men over the age of forty did not lose hope of meeting their only one. In real life, this fact becomes a problem for him, but in a marriage agency he usually warns about this in advance and, quite likely, he can meet the same woman or one who will treat this with understanding.
How do they care
Whatever traditions may exist in the groom's homeland, everything usually depends on his upbringing and social status. However, it is accepted that in Ukraine it is the man who bears all the expenses. Arriving here, he usually courts one on one, like a Ukrainian man. He can bring flowers on a first date, open the door in front of a lady in a cafe and taxi, and also kiss her hand. If he texts you, he often believes that everything is serious, and flies to the meeting with a wedding ring. There were cases when marriage proposals were made already on the second date. This happens if he is really serious, and did not come on vacation to have fun.
If a man understands that your English is poor, then he can pay you for English courses in language school, because you cannot do without it in his homeland. This is also a kind of courtship act. Very often, men give small gifts like teddy bears, gold rings, sweets already on the first date. Since marriage agencies are most often approached by already established men who want to start a family, then already on the first or second date, a potential candidate for husbands can start talking about his business, show you on a phone or tablet a photo of his house, car, motorcycle, household animals, children, if any.
American passports, unlike Ukrainian ones, do not have a marriage mark, so even if you ask him to show documents to make sure that a man is single, this will not help. You can verify this fact only by getting to know him better and visiting his country.
The USA is a country of immigrants. Even if a man has an American passport, his mentality and attitude towards women will be determined by his ethnicity, family upbringing. There are Russian, Ukrainian, Hispanic, Nigerian, Arab, Irish, Indian, Egyptian and other Americans. The place of residence of a man plays a huge role - so different men live in different states of the country. And the Texas farmer is fundamentally different in his way of life, appearance and behavior from a resident of New York Manhattan or Los Angeles.
What kind of women do you prefer
Despite the fact that in the US relations between women and men are often partnerships, and it is not uncommon for him and her to pay the bill in half on a date, not a single American does this in Ukraine. Regardless of his skin color, age, religion. When a man invites a potential bride to a cafe, he pays. Money for a taxi, tickets to the theater and a trip on excursions in 100% of cases is paid by the groom. The same applies if he invites a woman to visit his country - the cost of a visa and tickets fall on his shoulders.
A Ukrainian woman for any foreigner is the personification of home comfort, love for the household, as well as beauty and grooming. Quite often, one can hear complaints from a foreign groom about the unkemptness of women in their homeland and admiration for the beauty of Ukrainian women. Many of them do not really like women with a lot of makeup on their faces, although our girls, on the contrary, believe that this helps them attract the attention of a man. Men do not hesitate to speak frankly about this already on the first date. There are those who only like girls in heels, but most Americans will be fine if you show up on a date without them and in jeans.
Even if you have found your couple, then the next stage of the relationship is the “fiance visa”. If you try to enter the US on work, student, or other visas to get married, you may have problems. Since there are cases when a man pretended in Ukraine that he was rich, and upon the arrival of a woman in the United States, it turned out that he lives in rented housing and works as a cleaner in a supermarket. It is important to ascertain the financial status of a man. That is why it is better to go on a "fiance visa", for which he needs to collect a package of documents, which includes information on the amount of taxes paid for 3 recent years, as well as an extract from the bank account of the man. After all, if his income is below a certain level, then you will not receive a visa.
Laws in the US are strict, so even to obtain such a visa you will have to wait from 2 to 6 months and prove that you have no criminal record in your home country, have not been registered with the police as a prostitute, have not committed crimes in the US, do not have any then venereal and unmarried. After receiving a visa within 3 months, you need to marry a specific man to whom you came, or you will have to return to your homeland. This is the easiest way. But your children born in the USA will automatically receive the citizenship of this country with all the accompanying social benefits and rights.
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